Yes, I am thirsty. Not on water. Not on coffee mocha (even though that sounds good), but thirsty on more of Cameroun. I’m sitting in my room, realizing that it’s less than one month before I head back home to Norway. Good old Norway. But something makes me feel at home here in Cameroon. I can’t put words on it.
As I’ve written earlier, we are lots of Norwegians here in Ngaoundèrè. And I, I didn’t really feel like I got to experience the real way of living in Cameroun. So, I decided to “move” to Gadjiwan where I went for Christmas to live with a Cameroonian family. Solbjørg lives in Gadjiwan but was here in town for the opening of the churches. Thursday February 28th, me, solbjørg, Sigrid and the driver packed our stuff, and drove the 7 hour long drive to Gadjiwan. Sigrid worked in Cameroun before, a sporty old lady who wanted to join us. However, things didn’t exactly go like I hoped.
In the car, after driving for about 4 hours, I got fever. Just great! Me sitting in the backseat, half sleeping (even with the bumps in the road) and half listening to the two ladies. They amazed me! Both with the age around 80, they talked and talked for 7 hours, managed to stay awake. While me, the youth, just wanted to get out of the car tired of jumping up and down cause of the bumps!
The plan was to sleep at Solbjørg’s house the first night because we arrived late that night, and then the next morning I would move in with my “family”. I ended up staying with solbjørg till Monday. Because of that, my motivation of moving in with the Cameroonians became lower and lower for each day. However, when I finally got better, I moved in Monday afternoon.
Solbjørg invited the family to her house on Sunday. Still not feeling good, I threw on some clothes and tried to smile the best I could!
Eline kept surprisingly calm when she walked towards the “new home”. I didn’t know much; just that the father was the catechist in the church and the mother was the leader for Femmes pour Christ in the village. They had 5 children, three of them staying with them and two moved out.
I was welcomed with open arms. The family was: Mom Josephine, dad Albert, sisters Solange and Bea and younger brother Epi. Of course they had longer and several names, but that was what people called them.
The house- my room was with the window at right.
The Bathroom
My room. It was impossible to take a good picture, but here can you see a bit of my bed, the window and my door.
Our neighbors
I was going to walk with two neighbor girls to school every day. To see and experience how the Cameroonian school system works. Change in plans! It happened to be that the two teachers who taught English wasn’t there, so there weren’t any English classes at the moment. I don’t really remember how things got decided, but I ended up with teaching English for 4 ème and 5 ème. That’s about 9th and 10th grade in Norway. At first, I was a bit skeptic. I didn’t have any books with me and I didn’t know the classes. What was I going to do with them? But, I saw it like a challenge I wanted to take. So, from Tuesday till Friday, I woke up at 06.00, got ready for school and walked the 5 km long way with my two neighbors. It was beautiful! It was a bit cold, while the sun was still down. But as we saw the sunrise, it was just amazing!
It was worse on our way home when it was around 40 degrees. I survived carrying water and a scarf on my head.
06.20 a.m.
Arrived at school around 07.20 a.m. Why use your hands when you have a head?
Lining up every morning to rise the flag.
13.30 p.m. Hot! Very hot!
Here's the bathroom. The white lid in the left corner is the toilet and the "platform" at right is the shower.
It was necessary to take a "bath" after school.
For about 3 hours every day, I taught. They were about 70 students in the two classes, mostly boys. About 6-7 girls only. I had a bit challenge with one of the classes when they told me that they had worked with “unit 3, Space”. Me, not having my dictionary with me, was going to teach these students about space. The problem wasn’t’ the English, it was when I had to translate it into French.. I stumbled ahead with my poor French, trying to get understood. But hey, I don’t even know how to say “to fly” in French, how was I going to explain, spacecraft, scientists, astronauts, to orbit and words like that!? With some English/French words mixed with sign language, I think they understood most of it.. I probably looked very funny, arms and legs everywhere!
The teacher's room
The Staff + Eline
Trying to prepare myself for class..
4 ème - as you can see, mostly boys!
5 ème..
I almost had a hard time say goodbye to the four teachers at the school at the end of the week.. It was an experience for life!
After school, we ate. I enjoyed the evenings the most. I ate Couscous two times a day for 5 days, and I liked it every time! After dinner, I went with the girls for choir practice. A group consisting of about 10 girls who loved to sing and dance.
The livingroom - "mom", "dad" and their first daughter who had moved out.
Couscous with fish and a pistasj clump, very good!
Adorable Monica - one of the neighbor kids who came to visit every day.
Every time I went up to Solbjørg to get some more water, they came with me. Wanted to help me carry the botles.

Choir practice
Dancing..
One of the families in church has a TV. So, we went to his house one evening to watch music videos.Gadjiwan is a small small village where the possibilities are few. So, I had lots of time to explore the village, watch when Josephine made very good Cameroonian cookies or to just relax. When it became 6-7 o’clock, it was time for a “bath” before it was time for Couscous again. Just imagine; you with a bucket of water, a piece of soap, totally alone with the nature. The only sound is the frogs and the birds around you. If you look up, there’s nothing else to see then stars.


In the evening, we ate outside. With no electricity, we used a gasoline lamp, a blanket, some plaits, and voila, we had a dining room outside! I loved this time of the day. The sky was black covered with stars and stars everywhere! I’ve never seen the sky that beautiful before. I could just lie down on the carpet and look up. It made me think what a beautiful scenery it really is, it’s so powerful!

Sitting outside on the carpet. We were eating popcorn that i bought that day for "dessert".The worst thing with the whole week was the night. I didn’t sleep very well because of two things. It was HOT and I wasn’t the only one staying in my room during the nights. The bed was ok, but the enormous spiders who where there, and the three bats who made awfully load noises all night, didn’t exactly help me sleep well. But, the two last night, I managed to get a bit used to it, so things wasn’t that “scary” anymore.
I've never seen a spider like that.. Huge!
Even though I didn’t’ get to help much out, like getting water, make flaour, wash clothes or dishes, I felt like I “belonged” to the family. I talked a lot with “mom”, an amazing woman who was really thoughtful and sweet. She was always smiling and cheerful, even when times were difficult, she was optimistic! The last night with them, I had troubles keeping my tears away. Albert had a little “goodbye-speech”. He said hopefully we’ll see each other again, but we never know if you come back to Cameroun. I said if: I’m not coming back to see you here, On se voit là bas (we will meet again up there) and pointed up in the sky.
My trying to smash corn to make cornwflour.
That was a lot of work!
The girls wanted to help me with my luggage. It fascinates me they way they carry things!
Heading back home to Ngaoundèrè. And as we Norwegians would say; Borte bra, men hjemme best! ;)
Back again in Ngaoundèrè, I’ve made some thoughts of my stay.
I miss them! I miss eating together outside in the evening. I even miss the outdoor bathrooms. And actually, the whole in the ground didn’t do me anything. It’s almost like I miss that too, (just almost) ;) The feeling of no stress: Hakuna Matata. Of course I missed Helene and my friends here in Ngaoundèrè, and I’m glad I did. That means that I’m having a great time there. But I’m glad I got to experience to live with Albert and his family. Thanks a lot to them for taking in a “Nasara” in the family. A nasara who thought everything was amazing- a journey I will remember for a long time!